Today in PFLAG History

April 29, 1972:

morty manford“I Am Proud Of My Gay Son”:   Frustration had been growing in New York City’s gay community over the lack of news coverage of the gay rights movement since the Stonewall rebellion nearly three years before. When journalists and politicians gathered for the Fiftieth Annual Inner Circle dinner and comedy roast at the New York Hilton, members of the Gay Activists Alliance saw a perfect opportunity for a protest. But when they entered the ballroom during the intermission to distribute leaflets and briefly take the stage, they were thrown out. A fight ensued in the hallway, where, according to several city officials who witnessed the melee, Michael Maye, president of the city’s Uniformed Firefighters Association, threw twenty-one year old Morty Manford down an escalator, then kicked and stomped him. (Despite the numerous witnesses, Maye was later acquitted of the assault.)

Manford’s parents were outraged by the attack, and in April 29, Jeanne Manford’s letter appeared in the New York Post announcing her unquestioned support for her son:

A Fair Chance

I would like to commend The Post for its coverage last week of the tragic incident that took place at the Inner Circle dinner, when hoodlums who work for our city were allowed to beat up the young men of the Gay Activists Alliance and walk away while our police stood by watching. It might be that these “men” have themselves some deep rooted sexual problems or they would not have become so enraged as to commit violence in beatings.

I am proud of my son, Morty Manford, and the hard work he has been doing in urging homosexuals to accept their feelings and not let the bigots and sick people take advantage of them in the ways they have done in the past and are continuing to do.

I hope that your honest and forthright coverage of the incident has made many of the gays who have been fearful gain courage to come out and join the bandwagon. They are working for a fair chance at employment and dignity and to become a vocal and respected minority. It is a fight for recognition such as all minority groups must wage and needs support from outsiders as well as participants in the movements.

Jeanne Manford

manford 2Two months later, Jeanne would walk alongside her son during the New York City Gay Pride Parade, carrying a hand-lettered sign that read, “Parents of Gays United in Support of Our Children.” She later recalled that as they walked along the parade route spectators cheered and “young people were hugging me, kissing me, screaming, asking if I would talk to their parents. Very few of them were out to their parents for fear of rejection.” That when Jeanne and her husband, Jules, got the idea of starting a local support group for parents of gays and lesbians. That support group grew to become the internationally-renowned Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG), with 350 chapters more than 200,000 members in the U.S. Jeane Manford passed away last January at the age of 92.

(Source:  the LGBT blog Box Turtle Bulletin)

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Introducing PFLAG in Prince William County

Join Us for the Kick-off Celebration May 4th

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Our chapter is thrilled to announce that a new PFLAG group is forming to provide support, education and advocacy services to families in Prince William County.  And we’re inviting YOU to join us for the kick-off celebration on Saturday, May 4th.

 PFLAG Prince William Kick-Off Celebration
Saturday, May 4th
3:00 – 5:00pm
Bull Run Unitarian Universalist Church
9350 Main Street, Manassas, VA

Parents, family members, friends, members of the LGBT community, straight allies, supportive local businessmen and women, students, teachers, counselors and local dignitaries will come together to launch our new group.  A short presentation as a few special remarks will be made, and refreshments will be served.

One of the unique aspects of Metro DC PFLAG is that we have organized groups throughout our territory.  Being able to provide parents, friends and families in our region with a range of choices and options for attending a group helps ensure we can reach as many who need our services as possible. 

Prior to the start of this new group, residents of Prince William County would have to travel to one of our PFLAG groups in either Loudoun, Arlington or Fairfax counties.  We’re thrilled that with the addition of the Prince William group, we’ll soon have a PFLAG meeting available in every county in our northern Virginia territory.

After the May 4th kick-off, PFLAG Prince William will meet regularly on the 3rd Tuesday of every month, from 7:30 to 9:00pm at the Bull Run Unitarian Church.  For more information about the new PFLAG group in Prince William, contact the group facilitators at pflag.pwc@gmail.com.  For general information about PFLAG, visit our chapter website at www.pflagdc.org.

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How Will YOU Help End The Silence?

Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and ally (LGBTQA) students will join together today for GLSEN’s 18th annual National Day of Silence. Metro DC PFLAG is proud to support this annual effort  to call attention to the “silencing” effect of anti-LGBT bullying, bias and discrimination.

dayofsilenceThe National Day of Silence is a day when students across the country vow to take a form of silence to call attention to the silencing effect of anti-LGBT bullying and harassment in schools. According to the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network’s (GLSEN) 2009 National School Climate Survey, nearly 9 out of 10 LGBT students report verbal, sexual or physical harassment at school and more than 30% report missing at least a day of school in the past month out of fear for their personal safety.

The first Day of Silence was organized by students at the University of Virginia in 1996. They were inspired by a class assignment on non-violent protests, and over 150 students participated. In 1997, the Day of Silence went national, with nearly 100 colleges and universities participating. In 2001, GLSEN became the official organizational sponsor for the event, as the event has spread to high schools and junior highs.

The Day of Silence web site has important information and resources for those who are participating, and Lambda Legal has put together a pamphlet detailing a student’s legal rights in connection with your participation in the observance. Anti-gay activists have been very busy putting out tons of misinformation about the observance. You can find out the truth behind the misinformation here.

We stand behind and united with all the students in our area who are participating today.

 

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Join the Marriage Rallies at the Supreme Court

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PFLAG DC is joining PFLAG National and other chapters from across the country to participate in the United for Marriage Coalition rallies outside of the Supreme Court at 8:30AM EST on March 26th and 27th.  

On those dates, the justices will consider both the Proposition 8 case (Hollingsworth v. Perry, and the repeal of the so-called Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA).  Both of these cases are at the heart of whether our lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) loved ones can enjoy the same opportunities as every other American.

PFLAG’s presence and participation as a Coalition member in this historic moment for marriage equality is crucial. Therefore, we invite you to:

  • Join the PFLAG contingent to rally! Wear red (as all participants are asked to do), don your PFLAG pins, bring your PFLAG signs, and meet at 8:15AM EST at the corner of 1st Street SE and NE and East Capitol Street NE.   (You’ll be facing the Supreme Court and the Jefferson Library of Congress, behind you will be The Capitol Visitors Center and The Capitol). 
  • Visit PFLAG National’s offices after the rally!   National headquarters staff invite members and supporters to drop by their office any time after 12PM on both days to enjoy some light snacks and drinks, freshen up, or top off the charge on your cell phones.

It’s not too late to attend in DC, or to organize or join one of the 150 events already promoted in all 50 states.  Click here to get the schedule of events, help with transportation, and more for planning your trip to DC in support of this historic moment.

Won’t be in DC?

That’s okay:  There are many ways for PFLAG members and supporters to take action:

Find a rally or other action going on in your community.  There are more than 100 opportunities to stand up and be vocal, and we know some of you are already participating or planning your own events.  Click here to visit an interactive map with a list of local actions going on in communities across the country.

 

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Penthouse Cocktail Party to Celebrate 30 Year Anniversary

You are cordially invited to join Metro DC PFLAG to Party at the Penthouse!

Anniversaries are worthy of celebrating, and Metro DC PFLAG has reached a milestone.  2013 marks the chapter’s 30th anniversary, and we intend to celebrate in a BIG way!  In fact, we’re hosting a year-long series of celebrations to commemorate this achievement, honor our successes, and most importantly re-commit ourselves to the work that still lies ahead.

Penthouse Pool ClubThis is a party no one will want to miss.  The Penthouse Pool and Lounge is a membership-only urban resort designed to feel like an urban oasis of relaxation and nourishment.  Located on the roof of Vida Fitness on U Street NW, The Penthouse Pool Club is a membership based resort.  But for this one special night, the club welcomes Metro DC PFLAG members, volunteers, supporters and guests to party and celebrate in style.

In addition to the cash bar, refreshments, appetizers, the evening will also feature a summer fashion show, and a performance by comedian MK Paulsen.

Due to the unique opportunity to visit this exclusive location, as well as our limited capacity, we anticipate that tickets will sell fast.  Be sure to get yours now!   Follow this link to our website for full details and to purchase your event tickets.

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Metro DC PFLAG 30th Anniversary Penthouse Cocktail Party
Wednesday, May 8, 2013
6:00 – 9:00 pm
Penthouse Pool Club and Lounge
1612 U Street NW, Washington DC

Tickets & Info at:  www.pflagdc.org/events/penthouse

Metro DC PFLAG 30th Anniversary Committee Co-Chairs:
Ike Leggett, Montgomery County Executive
Carol Schwartz, Former DC Councilwoman At-Large
Jay Fisette, Vice-Chair – Arlington County Board

Metro DC PFLAG 2013 Business Sponsors:
Penthouse Pool Club
Bottom Line Solutions
AdWare

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A Very Special Guest Honors Our Founder

Sunday’s 30th Anniversary Party honoring Paulette Goodman was a wonderful event.  Hosted my Montgomery County Executive Ike Leggett and his wife Catherine, the party brought together old friends from the chapter’s early days with volunteers, staff and supporters who continue to carry the task of “Keeping Families Together.

leggettetalpauletteHere, Ike Leggett, who is also a former PFLAG DC board member, presents a proclamation from Montgomery County to Paulette. Ike is flanked by other elected officials representing the cities, towns, and the county.

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ltgovpaulettePrior to Ike’s presentation however, there was a bigger surprise for Paulette.  A proclamation by the honorable Martin O’Malley, Governor of the state of Maryland is presented  by the honorable Anthony Brown, Lt. Governor of the state of Maryland.

Click this link to view gallery of photos from the event.

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Reception Honors Founder Paulette Goodman

30th Anniversary Reception to Honor PFLAG-DC’s Founder

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Metro DC PFLAG is celebrating its 30th Anniversary throughout 2013 with a series of special events held across our metro region. Ike Leggett, Montgomery County Executive, former PFLAG-DC board member and co-chair of this year’s Anniversary Committee, and his wife Catherine host this reception to honor founder Paulette Goodman.

What:  PFLAG Reception to Honor Paulette Goodman
Date:  Sunday, March 17th
Time:  4:00 – 6:00 pm
Location:  4401 Dustin Road, Burtonsville, MD  20866

This afternoon of fellowship will celebrate our history and accomplishments, while also encouraging and inspiring us all to continue the work toward full equality.  We sincerely hope you and your entire family will join our PFLAG family for this event, and support our mission to “Keep Families Together”

Details are available on our chapter website.

All of our 2013 30th Anniversary Celebration events are brought to you by:

Metro DC PFLAG Anniversary Committee Co-Chairs:
Ike Leggett, Montgomery County Executive
Carol Schwartz, Former DC Councilwoman At-Large
Jay Fisette, Vice-Chair – Arlington County Board

Metro DC PFLAG Business Sponsors:
Bottom Line Solutions

 

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